Saturday, April 21, 2012

45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON’T ASK FOR:



45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON'T ASK FOR:

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
…4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING ..
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say "I love her more than you", deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.

24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don't lie to her.
27. DON'T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT'S IMPORTANT.
31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.

35. Don't ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she's upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you're sitting on her.



Monday, April 2, 2012

Meditation




Have you ever noticed, that the moment someone asks to keep your eyes shut for five minutes, that's exactly when

your eyeballs want to grab on every visual around you! Same goes for being quiet. When the human mind seems to be so uncontrollable, how does someone meditate right without getting distracted? Read on to find out what should a beginner do to stay focused to the meditation routine:

Stay motivated

It is easy to get frustrated easily initially, but try to control that quitting urge in you. Keep a fixed time in your schedule for meditation. Try being consistent on the timing and prefer meditating in the morning hours or late at night as the mind is generally relaxed during this time. Having a partner always helps, so try asking your partner to join in.

Listen to the instructions

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There are countless CDs and DVDs available in the market that explains the art of meditation. Grab one of them and listen to it while you meditate. The audio will give you a step by step information on how to meditate. You can also listen to podcasts available online to motivate yourself.

Focus on your body parts

The most effective way of meditating is to concentrate on different parts of the body. Start from your toes, feet and legs and then gradually move upwards till your chest, neck and forehead. Every time you get frustrated or irritated, try concentrating on your breathing to feel more focused.

Meditate in a conducive environment

It's better to select a spot at your house that is disconnected from all that domestic chaos at home. Stay away from loud music as it can get distracting, especially for a beginner. But if you are a music lover, you might want to burn a mix-tape with some soft music in it. This can also help you disconnect from the activities around.

Before you begin

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It's is advisable to stretch before you start meditating. It will loosen your muscles, making you sit for a longer while. Meditation post stretching will relax your mind even better showing good results.

Avoid eating right before meditation

Human body needs more blood to digest a heavy meal. Blood is directed to all parts of the body and even the brain which makes you sleepy. So, avoid heavy meals right before you begin. Stick to a light snack if you are really hungry because an empty stomach will only urge you to cut short your session.

There will be times when, despite trying all the above methods, you find yourself unwilling to go forward. During such times, it is only your perseverance that will see you through the entire process.The key is to stick to your new routine no matter how difficult it may seem. Once you start seeing the amazing results of meditation, you will never want to give it up


 
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